One thing that came to my attention again last week was the need for all the ladies out there to give back to themselves.  In fact, I had two different women come to me, each coming out of really challenging situations, and both in need of some beautiful loving attention.  And this isn’t unusual.

As women, we are often put in the position of taking care of others.  Sometimes our own needs are put on the back-burner while we make sure that others have what they need.  But the thing is, if we aren’t fulfilled, there isn’t much to give back to others.  There’s only so much we can give without making sure our own needs are met.

One way to do this is with Yoni massage.  Women are sensual creatures.  It’s part of who we are, how we are built.  We are connected to our bodies on a deep level, and we need to honour the body.  And sometimes, we don’t give ourselves permission to do that.  A yoni massage or full body sensual massage is an amazing way to bring in some beautiful self-love.  Plus, there’s nothing like an amazing, toe curling orgasm to re-energise the body and tap into deeper levels of vitality and joy.

Women are often more resistant to sexual pleasure-based therapies than men.  But it’s ok to seek these out.  There’s no shame associated with it.  In fact, a yoni massage or sensual full body massage is a perfect way to reclaim ourselves.  That’s what these therapies are for.  By allowing ourselves to orgasm, we explore our sexual selves.  We allow ourselves to expand and to create a deeper connection with our bodies.

Touch and orgasm are ways of honouring our bodies.  They help us to reawaken our sensual selves and reconnect with our passion and joy.  Healthy self-love and touch is a way of giving back to ourselves.  And, when we give back to ourselves, we get back to ourselves.  We reclaim that sense of vitality and energy that makes live a joy to live.  We all deserve that.  We deserve to connect with sensual feeling and allow ourselves passionate, sensual expansion.

So check in.  Have you been giving back to yourselves?  Making sure you schedule some time for some loving self-touch?  Have you given yourself permission to take care of your own needs, or has it been all about taking care of others?  Maybe it’s time.

If you’re curious about yoni massage and you’d like to know more about it, feel free to reach out.  I love to help my clients to reconnect with their bodies and embrace their sexual selves.

In love and light,

Taranga