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Tantra and Edging - Lasting Longer in the Bedroom

Feb 062020

Alright, everyone.

Hands up if you just want to get your lovemaking over with as soon as possible.  You know, rip some clothes off, orgasm as quickly as you can, then dust off and do something else.

What, no one?

Ok, so that’s not surprising.  Sex is one of the greatest joys of life.  When it comes to something that good, you don’t want to rush it.  And yet, that’s what happens all too often.  A statistic I looked at a while back claimed that from entry to orgasm, a man will last on average 5.4 minutes.  It’s over by the time things start to get really good!

If this strikes a chord, don’t despair.  With a simple tip and a bit of practice, anyone can make their lovemaking last longer.  All it takes is slowing down and learning a bit more about your body, and sex can become more rewarding, more pleasurable, and infinitely more satisfying for both of you.  And the key here is edging.

For many people, intimate play becomes a headlong rush to orgasm.  The excitement rises, clothes come off, and then before you know it, it’s over.  And, all too often, one person is less satisfied than the other.

But what happens when you slow down?  If you take your time and let the sensations build up, get almost to the point where you can’t hold back any longer – and then slow back down.  Again and again, each time bringing you a little closer to the point of no return…

This is the practice of edging.  It teaches you orgasm control, to build up almost to the peak, and then pull back, relaxing away from the orgasm.  The energy builds up, then ebbs off, but only a bit.  Slowly, after doing this a few times, the sexual energy builds to levels you can’t even imagine.  And. When you finally let yourself pass the point, you explode with a more exquisite orgasm than you can achieve any other way.  Like a toe-curling, body-shaking, forget-where-you-are kind of explosion.  

One of the great things about edging is that it can give a man much greater control over their orgasms.  It will help him too slow down, to listen to his own body’s signals and those of his lover.  Instead of being a (brief) athletic performance, lovemaking transforms into a sensual, intimate experience.  Benefits: stronger sex drive, more orgasm control, more fulfilling sexual experiences, and possible multiple orgasms.  How can you beat that?

This isn’t just for men, though.  Women who practice edging enjoy the same enhancement of sexual experience and unbelievable heightening of pleasure.  Edging deepens the state of arousal and can even put you in a state of euphoria and altered consciousness when sensations peak.  In fact, edging for both men and women, is a beautiful way to move into a study of tantra.

So what is tantra, anyway?

If you’ve been reading my articles for a while, you probably already have a pretty strong understanding of it.  But, for those just tuning in, tantra is a practice that helps us to explore our sexual energy.  It’s about listening to our body and our feelings, learning how to tune in to our sexual energy, feel it, build it, and channel it through our body.  It’s not just about sex, either, as this same energy can be used to support creative pursuits, to tap into more joy and a deeper quality of life, and generally to step into a more empowered way of living.  Tantra is about being conscious of what we’re feeling, and allowing the body and the feelings to guide us.

In tantric sex, we practice feeling the energy as it rises, allowing it to fill the entire body instead of being confined to the genitals.  We practice moving slowly, organically, connected to our lover and following the dance of our shared energies instead of chasing a particular outcome.  We also learn to connect with the breath, keeping present and embodied with mindful breathing, syncing our breathing with our lover so that we tune in to the same station, the same steps of the dance.

Tantra is a practice.  Not something that you learn, and then it’s done.  Each time you step into some sensual play with your lover, you have an opportunity to deepen your connection with your own body and that of your partner.  Edging is a beautiful way to slow down.  It forces you to get in the body and pay attention to the sensations as they come.  And when you practice with your lover, you can get to the point where you are moving as one, allowing the energy to rise and fall together.  This will take some practice, but the great thing is that each time you make love can be better than the last.

As with anything, don’t take my word for it.  Try it out with your lover and see how it feels.  Slow down and tune in, follow the feelings.  Breathe with your partner.  Bring it right to the edge, and then back down.  Breathe the energy through the entire body and through the heart.  Build again, and again…

Have fun, lovelies.


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Goodbye to 2019!

Dec 012019

Hello, lovelies!

It’s that time again. Another year has flown by, and it’s time to celebrate the coming of another journey around the sun and to reflect on what the year has brought. On the things we’ve accomplished, and those we’ve just not yet gotten around to. We’re all another year older – and hopefully wiser – so where is the journey leading us next?

Just to share a bit of my own personal experience, this year has had loads of ups and downs. Some heavy challenges and deep contemplation. Not always fun. They wouldn’t be called challenges if they weren’t challenging. But this has brought in some beautiful determination and clarity regarding the road ahead. I find myself deeply humbled by the people who pass through my door and honoured to stand in service, offering the gift of touch. More than ever, I look back and see how blessed I am to be able to do what I love so much and have a meaningful impact on the lives of those I meet.

On a more practical level, I’ve been realising that it’s time to raise my prices. I started Blissrising more than ten years ago, and this will be the first time. There are plenty of reasons for this. Prices have gone up for everything over the last decade, and I’ve been learning, adding skills and refining my art through the years. So this is me recognising my value and honouring that, just as I honour each and every person who walks through my door.

Most of you who are reading this know me and have worked with me. You know that I am a skilled professional with impeccable taste and integrity. You know that when you come to a session with me, you get 100% of what I have to offer, the highest standard of quality and service. And I do this for myself just as much as you.

The upside of this for you is that if you want the 2019 rates, there’s still a bit of time to book a session! Set up something with me now and you can lock it in before the hike!

One thing that has been resoundingly clear, this year and previous years, is that I really believe in this work. Massage and touch are so important for each of us. We all need to feel, to let go of the crap and tune in to our bodies, to give back to ourselves. Massage is a huge part of self-care, a way to find equilibrium and healing against the backdrop of chaos.

Here’s a passage from the Book “From Medication to Meditation” by OSHO. It’s one that touched my heart, and that I keep in mind each time a client walks through my door. He was asked to comment on the art of massage, and this is what he said:

“Massage is something that you can start learning but you never finish. It goes on and on, and the experience becomes continuously deeper and deeper and higher and higher. Massage is one of the most subtle arts – and it is not only a question of expertise. It is more a question of love. Learn the technique – then forget it. Then just feel, and move by feeling. When you learn deeply, ninety per cent of the work is done by love, ten per cent by the technique. By just the very touch, a loving touch, something relaxes in the body.”

I look forward to meeting many more people in search of deep relaxation and exploration in the year ahead. And a warm thanks to all of you who are already in my life, clients and friends alike. If you celebrate the holidays, have a joyous time, play safe and have the most glorious New Year as we embrace conscious change in the world in 2020.

In love and light,


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Sensual touch and consent

Oct 012019

Hello, lovely readers.  Recently I saw an awesome video featuring one of my friends and associates, Mistress Tokyo.  She’s bringing some exposure to the world of touch and consent.  It’s a great discussion and really fun.  Click here if you’d like to take a look.  

Consent is one of the most important features of intimacy and sensual play.  Whether it’s a gentle touch, or a kiss, or a spanking, or something more, it’s important to know that your partner wants to go there.  When you communicate and get to know what your partner is open to, you create a safe container for your play.  You make sure it’s a beautiful, fun, and healing experience for both of you.  This helps you to push the boundaries and explore new territory while still ensuring that both of you are having a beautiful experience, all the way through.

The first thing to remember is that consent comes into play before you even get into the bedroom.  It’s about communication and trust.  Have a conversation with your partner.  Explore your limits.  What are you comfortable with?  What would you like to explore?  Communication helps you to create a safe container for your play, to ensure that your partner feels held and is able to relax into the experience.

Communication doesn’t stop there.  It’s important to keep it going all through your play.  One important element, if you want to bring more kink into the bedroom, is to use safe words.  Choose a word that means “no” and “stop.”  Make it something that would never come up in the ordinary process of your sensory play, so that you have a clear signal that won’t break the flow, something that either of you can say if things go further than you’re ready for in the moment.

Another thing to remember is that consent isn’t a “once and done” thing.  Your limits can change in the moment, so the lines of communication have to stay open throughout.  One great way of working with the changing levels of consent during the play is to use the traffic light system: green, yellow and red.  This is simple, and everyone knows what the colours mean right from the start.  Green gives the go-ahead, yellow says, “slow down, I’m approaching my limit” and red means “stop”.

With a system like this, you can keep communication going throughout the play and make sure that your consent, in the moment, is in line with what’s happening in your play.

One area where this is really helpful is anal play.  This can be delicious and exciting, for both men and women.  But before you just jump into it, you want to make sure your partner is ready.  Ask about whether they are open to it beforehand.  And, since consent shifts from one moment to the next, make sure your lover is relaxed and ready to go further.  Ease into it, ask if it’s ok, if your partner enjoys your touch.  With communication and trust, you can step into some delicious new places of trust and sensuality.

Touch is one of the most healing forms of interaction we can share.  And the healing comes directly from consent, communication, and trust.  If you want to know more about this, reach out.  I love to help my clients explore new territory, to get embodied and delve into all the touch they’d like to experience.

In love and light,


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BQ – The missing link?

Aug 012019

So we’ve all heard of IQ.  And EQ is gaining a bit more recognition in the public eye as we become more aware of our need for emotional intelligence.  But what’s BQ?

BQ, or body intelligence, is how well we are able to listen to our bodies.  It’s about tuning in to that subtle and profound wisdom that we carry around in our physical bodies that we have access to in every moment.  BQ is our ability to pay attention to our bodies’ cues and understanding how to manage them.  This is critical for knowing what we need and when we need it.  It’s one of the most important keys for great health and lasting happiness.

Every day, we have to deal with multiple stress points.  We get depleted, exhausted, distressed, etc.  Since we are surrounded by distractions and high energy stimuli, we often compensate by switching off or numbing out, doing what we can to turn the volume down.  The result is that sometimes we lose sight of our needs.  We don’t get enough sleep, or the right food, or enough activity.  In short, we forget to be kind to ourselves.

BQ is our ability to remain aware of our bodies, to notice the sensations that arise and listen to them.  When we can do that, especially when we make it instinctive, we enhance our happiness and quality of life.  And, like all things, it’s a practice.  The more often we make it a point to check in with ourselves and listen to what our body has to say, the more natural it is to notice it in the moment.

This is one of the central features of self-care that’s largely ignored or overlooked in modern society.  There are plenty of extremely intelligent people out there, some with a good sense of their emotions, who are unconscious of their bodies.  And their health suffers as a result.  We might put on extra weight, get fatigued, carry around ridiculous levels of stress, and even get sick if we leave it too long.  We sidestep our needs with coffee, sugar, or alcohol, compensating when we could be going to the source, feeling better not just now, but for the long run.

BQ is essential in every aspect of life.  Listening when our body asks us to take a break.  Getting still and checking in so we know when we need more sleep, or a good healthy meal.  When we need a bit more water or to get our body moving.  By listening, we can improve our productivity, sharpen our mind, and boost energy levels.  It doesn’t happen overnight.  Changing habits and learning to be more aware of our body is a practice.  But, if we’re willing to put in the time and effort, the rewards are improved productivity, better happiness, and improved health.

It doesn’t end there.  Another huge part of taking care of ourselves physically, is touch.  We need to feel, to have contact with others, or even to touch ourselves and awaken our sensations.  This is a way to become more conscious and more alive, to bring more joy into every moment that we experience.

Massage is a key part of taking care of ourselves on a physical level.  Touch is a form of self-love, a way of giving back to our body and nourishing ourselves with the affection that we need.  When we listen to our bodies’ needs for touch, we reduce stress and boost our levels of serotonin and oxytocin.  We actually become happier, healthier, and more confident.

So, with this in mind, here are a few simple pointers for boosting your BQ:

1. Check in

Take a few moments to regularly stop and listen to your body.  Drop what you’re doing and notice what you can.  Get still and tune in to the sensations.

2. Listen to the cues

Instead of just noticing the sensation, ask yourself what it means.  What is your body saying to you?  It might be asking for water, or food, or touch, or a bit of rest.  Learn how your body gives you these messages.

3. Do something about it

Your body’s cues are giving you a message, helping you to become aware of a need.  So, take action on what it tells you.  Drink some water.  Take a break.  Get moving.  Set up a massage so that you can get some nourishing touch.

It’s a simple as that.  And the more often you make it a point to stop and check in, the more instinctive it will become.  The beautiful thing is that the more you listen and give your body what it’s asking for, the healthier and happier you become.

In love and light,


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Embracing Sexuality with a Yoni Massage

Jun 012019

One thing that came to my attention again last week was the need for all the ladies out there to give back to themselves.  In fact, I had two different women come to me, each coming out of really challenging situations, and both in need of some beautiful loving attention.  And this isn’t unusual.

As women, we are often put in the position of taking care of others.  Sometimes our own needs are put on the back-burner while we make sure that others have what they need.  But the thing is, if we aren’t fulfilled, there isn’t much to give back to others.  There’s only so much we can give without making sure our own needs are met.

One way to do this is with Yoni massage.  Women are sensual creatures.  It’s part of who we are, how we are built.  We are connected to our bodies on a deep level, and we need to honour the body.  And sometimes, we don’t give ourselves permission to do that.  A yoni massage or full body sensual massage is an amazing way to bring in some beautiful self-love.  Plus, there’s nothing like an amazing, toe curling orgasm to re-energise the body and tap into deeper levels of vitality and joy.

Women are often more resistant to sexual pleasure-based therapies than men.  But it’s ok to seek these out.  There’s no shame associated with it.  In fact, a yoni massage or sensual full body massage is a perfect way to reclaim ourselves.  That’s what these therapies are for.  By allowing ourselves to orgasm, we explore our sexual selves.  We allow ourselves to expand and to create a deeper connection with our bodies.

Touch and orgasm are ways of honouring our bodies.  They help us to reawaken our sensual selves and reconnect with our passion and joy.  Healthy self-love and touch is a way of giving back to ourselves.  And, when we give back to ourselves, we get back to ourselves.  We reclaim that sense of vitality and energy that makes live a joy to live.  We all deserve that.  We deserve to connect with sensual feeling and allow ourselves passionate, sensual expansion.

So check in.  Have you been giving back to yourselves?  Making sure you schedule some time for some loving self-touch?  Have you given yourself permission to take care of your own needs, or has it been all about taking care of others?  Maybe it’s time.

If you’re curious about yoni massage and you’d like to know more about it, feel free to reach out.  I love to help my clients to reconnect with their bodies and embrace their sexual selves.

In love and light,


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The couples that play together stay together

Apr 042019
Couple two hands together tantra intimacy

If you’re new to this world, you might think that working with a tantric practitioner is only for single people.  But that couldn’t be further from the truth.  One of the things that I enjoy best as a tantric therapist is the opportunity to work with couples, to help them to deepen their relationship and enhance their love lives.  It’s been amazing to work with couples, both one-on-one and with couples massage, watching as their connection grows stronger and their satisfaction grows.

With one-on-one sessions, couples expand their learning base, receiving firsthand knowledge of sensual erotic touch and body wisdom.  There’s no better way to learn about touch than through touch.  These sessions help you to understand how you like to be touched, to discover what feels good and how to tune into that feeling to make it even more delicious.  This is a main part of Tantra, learning to slow down and feel, how to take your time and savour the experience.  Another beautiful benefit is that these sessions teach you different touch skills and different elements of touch.

Another huge benefit for couples is the couples massage. When we move into couples massage, you learn how to be with one another in new and different ways.  Sometimes we fall into patterns and things can get a bit stale.  We use the same forms of touch again and again, and the spark begins to dim.  But with couples massage, you can learn different ways of touching one another, of relating and sharing with one another.  This brings variety into the relationship, making it a never ending exploration.  This fans the spark back alive and brings the excitement that everyone hopes for back into the connection.

But tantric sessions aren’t just for couples that have started to lose their steam.  These are touch skills that improve your intimacy and deepen your connection even when things are still exciting.  No matter where you are in your relating, it helps to learn to slow down and deepen your feeling, to tune in to your partner and learn how to touch them the way that they want to be touched.  Tantra helps you to explore touch and feeling in all of its forms, keeping passion and connection strong throughout your entire life.

So, whether you’d like to learn more about touch one-on-one or explore a couples massage with your partner, feel free to reach out.  I love sharing these skills with others and helping them to tap into their most exquisite sensual experiences.

In love and light,


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Don't just read about it: experience a Tantra Massage

Feb 012019
Become fully alive and in the moment with a Tantra Massage.

One thing that I hear all the time when first meeting a new client is, “I’m familiar with Tantra.  I’ve read all about it.”  This is great.  Maybe you’ve read about a tantra workshop in the papers or come across an article in a magazine.  If you’ve delved a bit deeper, your curiosity may have led you to a book from one of the many wonderful authors on the subject.

All of this is a beautiful beginning.  It’s by reading about tantric techniques and philosophy that we learn about it to begin with.  When it comes right down to it, though, reading is just the beginning.  Tantra is more than just knowledge and ideas.  It’s experiential.  Tantra is a feeling experience, something that is learned through the body rather than the mind.  To explore tantra, you have to be with a partner who understands the finer details.  This is doubly important when seeking out the attentions of a practitioner.

One of the best ways to begin the bodily exploration of tantra is with a Tantra Massage.  Many of my clients tell me that they’ve wanted to do this session for a long time but have been putting it off.  And this is understandable, but if you want to take it to the next level, visiting a tantric practitioner is the way to go.

A Tantra Massage is about more than just a sexual experience.  It’s sensual on a level deeper than most people ever experience.  It’s about tuning into the feeling and bringing the sexual energies into your whole body.  Through sensation and breath, you practice allowing the energy to rise up from the genitals and flow through the entire body system.  You breathe the energy throughout the body, and the more you breathe, the more you feel.  This is a simple technique, but it has the potential to profoundly transform your sensual experience, in the bedroom and in every aspect of life.

Without training, our sexuality is often unconscious.  Fast and hard.  And there’s a place for this, but it’s only part of the experience.  A Tantra Massage teaches us to go slow.  We take our time with the massage, with the genitals and the whole body.  We build the energy gradually and saturate the entire body through breath.

The tantric experience can be beautiful and overwhelming.  And the results are phenomenal.  It can lead to a body orgasm.  This is different to an ejaculation.  The ejaculation is an outward explosion of energy.  In a body orgasm, though, the energy is built and magnified until it explodes inwardly in a torrent of sensation.  Ejaculation is amazing and fun, but once you’ve had a body orgasm, you’ll understand why the tantric experience is worth the exploration.

So, go ahead and indulge your curiosity, stimulate the mind with as much study as you need.  And then, when you really want to explore tantra, take it into the body.  A Tantra Massage is a wonderful new experience, exquisite and profound.  It will invite an entire range of new sensations into your body.  This is something that no one should miss, and I recommend that everyone has one at least once in their lives.

So, when you’re ready to feel the difference within your own body and deepen your knowledge of tantra from within, come along for a Tantra Massage with me. 

In love and light, 


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The Joy of Talking Dirty

Dec 012018

Ok, who out there really knows how to tell your lover what you want?  How you want to be touched, what you want to feel?  If you’ve got that down, by all means move on to the next subject.  But, if you’ve ever been shy or felt uncomfortable talking about what feels good, then this is for you.

There’s a bit of a stigma around talking dirty.  Around sexuality itself, for that matter.  And then we wonder why we aren’t satisfied.  Well, the good news is that it doesn’t have to be that way.  We don’t have to lock away our desires and hide them from our lover.  We can actually open up and talk about what turns us on.  And, if you’ve been a little shy, no worries.  There’s no time like the present.

Sometimes we keep quiet because we’re afraid of being judged.  Maybe we’ve been taught to judge ourselves.  To think it’s not right for us to want to be pleased and tell our lover what that looks like, what we imagine it might.  The truth of the matter is that sometimes we learn the wrong lessons, and that’s one of them.  It’s not wrong to talk about our desires.  In fact, it couldn’t be more right.

How do you feel when your lover tells you what they like?  Does it get you excited?  Bring in a little tingle, a bit of warmth in your belly and deeper?  It’s juicy and enticing to have a lover tell us what really gets them going.  And our lover feels the same way about hearing it from us.  Man or woman, it doesn’t matter.  Touch me here, slide your tongue along me like that, let me feel you in this position…  This is hot!  It’s a way to unapologetically embrace our desires and invite a depth of passion.

And you don’t have to wait for things to get hot and heavy first.  You may want to practice in those sexy moments, getting closer and sharing a kiss or a nuzzle.  Whisper a little desire in your lover’s ear.  Share about a sensual experience you’d like to have.  Talk about what revs your engine, and see how your lover responds.  You might get a bit of surprise, but I can guarantee it won’t be disappointment.  In fact, this can be the key to bringing your connection to a juicier, more exquisite level than you’ve ever felt before.  Try it once, and you’ll find that you want to talk about those sexy little thoughts again the next time.  This is a way to drive your lover wild before you even reach the bedroom.

So, have a think about it.  What do you want?  Sensual massage?  A little bit of bondage?  How can you share your desires to inspire passion and delicious connection?  Maybe challenge yourself to say it in the moment, when it really counts.  Let yourself talk a bit dirty, and see what happens.  There’s no way you’ll want to get shy again after your lover shows you what it means to them to hear you.

Wishing you some deliciously naughty moments in this holiday season,


Tantra?  What the hell is that? 

Nov 032018

This is a really beautiful question.  It’s a term that you hear tossed around more these days, especially around sex.  And, you know that tantra is a big part of my own services, Tantra Massage and Sensual Massage. But, what is it?

Really, tantra is about all life.  Sex is the metaphor for learning presence, true embodiment, and full aliveness.  Tantra is a path to learning ourselves and learning to really feel life.

Our feelings are powerful.  When we haven’t dealt with them, they hang around and pop back up whenever we’re triggered.  One way that we learn to block these feelings is distracting ourselves.  Getting our mind going and dropping out of our bodies.  Think about it.  What does your right big toe feel like right now?  If you’re like most people, you didn’t have any idea until you stopped to feel into it.  Becoming embodied means feeling all the nuanced sensations across our skin and within us.  There’s so much to feel within our bodies in any moment that if we are able to really be present to it, we wouldn’t have much time or space for obsessions or stories.

Tantra is all about acceptance, on the deepest level you can imagine.  When we try to hold away feeling, we are rejecting it.  In rejecting something within us, we split ourselves.  We create a war inside, both the part that we identify with and the part that we reject clamoring for attention.  Rejecting things causes us to contract.  It blocks our energy and connection to the world.  Acceptance expands us, allowing us to feel free, to listen to ourselves and follow the subtle wisdom of our bodies.

The really beautiful thing about this is that acceptance is also the key to transformation.  When we reject a part of ourselves, we split it away from the part connected with our will and identity.  And we fight it.  In fighting, we make it stronger.  So we make it even harder to let go of that aspect of ourselves we don’t like.  By accepting it, by holding the hand of the hurting child inside, we make space for it to transform on its own.  And accepting it is all about letting it in, allowing ourselves to really feel it.

Sex is one of the most profound and sensual experiences that a human being can have.  That’s why tantra is often described and taught in terms of sexuality.  Two people come together in an explosion of feeling, an inner urge.  The mind can come in to try to control the situation, shape it somehow.  The practice of tantra helps us to learn how to let go of the mind again and just follow the energy.  We feel each grazing touch, swim in our body’s response to the sensation, take our time and allow the experience to flow naturally.

Sex is a great way to teach this because the sensations across our skin and the rising energy in our body are so powerful and present.  It’s a beautiful path to embodiment.  But you don’t stop there.  Tantra teaches us to bring that same level of awareness into your body at all times.  To make life a sensual experience.  And, in the process, we learn to hear our feelings when they come up, to process them in the moment instead of burying them so that they can surface later.  We learn how to relate from a more real and fulfilling place.

This has just been a short introduction to what tantra really is.  It shines a light on what I really do, what tantra massage is really all about.  In later articles, I’ll explore it further, going into how the practice can help you have more fulfilling relationships and the most amazing sex life you could possibly imagine.  Tune in next time for some more juicy tidbits.

In love and light, 


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Happy Endings for Women!

Sep 032018

Did you know that not so long ago, the female orgasm was considered to be a myth?  Mostly by men, perhaps, but the culture of a century ago widely thought that sexual pleasure was a man’s world.  We’ve made a lot of progress since then (thank heaven!), but you can still see the echoes of this perspective in our cultural approach to sexuality.

Here’s one example: It’s not all that hard for a man to find a massage parlor offering a happy ending.  For women, it’s another matter entirely.  Have a look at this:


This is the journey of Karley Sciortino as she looks for a service that offers happy endings for women.  It’s brief, and lots of fun, so enjoy.  It also brings up some really good questions.  Why is it so hard, even in an urban sprawl like New York, to receive or even find a service that lets a woman experience orgasm on demand?  Why can’t we rock up and get an erotic massage and happy ending whenever we like?  Is it just that our culture accepts such things for men but frowns on them for women?  And if so, it’s time to put that antiquated attitude on the shelf.

Pleasure is not just a man’s world.  Both sexes have an equal right to sexuality, to sensuality and touch.  And we all love pleasure.  Sure, it’s no replacement for a relationship, but there’s nothing wrong – and a whole lot right – with being able to gift our bodies with sensual massage and regular orgasms.  It keeps us healthy and vital.  It keeps the whole of our bodies and beings alive.

And, for all those who think that women don’t want this kind of attention, or that they shouldn’t want it, it’s time to wake up.  We’re in the 21st century.  Let’s let go of our limits around sexuality.  Let’s move past the taboos that have kept us from exploring our sexual natures, kept us repressing our sensual sides.  Sex is healthy.  It feels good.  It brings more satisfaction, more life, and more excitement into our world.  All of us deserve regular sexy attention!

Well, here’s some good news, girls.  It doesn’t have to be that hard to find this service.  I’m proud to be a sexual pleasurist and sensual therapist.  I offer these services so that you can receive an erotic massage – and more! –when you feel like giving your body a treat.  I have a background in Tantra Massage, Sensual & Erotic Massage, Lomi Lomi Massage, Yoni Massage and even Bondassage for the more kink inclined.  Bottom line, I love to explore my own sexual nature, and to help others to explore theirs.  It would be a delight to give you a bit of delight.

So, if your body is ready for a bit of attention, if you’d like to feel some touch, some pleasure, and a delicious orgasm, reach out.  I’m here for you.

In love and light,


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